10 Ways a Leo Man in Bed Gets Super Turned On

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Leo man in bed, revealed by a Leo man

Wondering what the Leo man is like in bed? Dating a Leo male and thinking about hooking up? Curious about how to turn him on? If the answer is yes, you’ve come to the right place.

That’s because I’m a Leo man and know all about what we are like in the sack.

Other posts on the Internet profess to know all about this Fire sign. But the material they share is typically based on the female perspective and never from the guy.

Wouldn’t it be nice (for a change) to hear about how the men really are when it comes to sexy-time? Well, I’m about to give you some serious insight that I promise you’ll get nowhere else. In fact, I have a feeling that if you heed my advice, you’ll have an amazing time and come begging back for more.

If that sounds arrogant, please accept my apologies. But here is what you need to know. Most all Leos are prideful and carry an oversized perception of our personalities.

I wish that wasn’t the case sometimes because this trait often gets us into trouble. Chalk it up to overconfidence I suppose.

Alrighty then, let’s get right to it. Here’s 10 ways a Leo man gets turned on in bed – the real deal – no BS.

1. We like the chase

Before bedding you, it’s important to play a little cat and mouse. Unlike other signs that will drop their pants in a heartbeat (see the Pisces men), Leo dudes need more excitement.

This means we dig the chase and are OK with the hard to get scenario. It just makes getting with you all the more passionate when the time arrives.

If we sense that you are too eager, it will probably turn us off. I’m just being real with you, ok?

2. We like being massaged

Most all of the Leo guys I know have shared they prefer a buildup before doing the deed. Typically, this means letting a mate massage us in various places.

You may be wondering where? Well, our erogenous zones happen to be our backs and chests. In fact, being touched in these areas has a way of making us somewhat submissive.

I say somewhat because no true Leo is ever totally submissive. This leads us to our next point.

3. We need to dominate

A lot of women think getting with a dominant guy is the bomb. But when push comes to shove and the moment actually happens, it’s often another story.

There’s no easy way for me to tell you this except to just blurt it out. Leo men like to dominate, and we prefer our mates to be submissive.

That doesn’t mean we won’t pleasure you or get you all excited. We will. But we have to be the ones to initiate it. If you think you can overpower us or somehow control under the sheets, think again.

Some women wear our birthstone, Peridot, as a way of containing our primal power. And while it is true that doing so may have some effect, it won’t be enough to completely keep us in check.

4. We dig being worshiped

This one goes hand in hand with the whole dominate thing. Leo men vibe out masculine energy – perhaps the strongest in the universe. As a result, we need to be worshiped, particularly in the bedroom.

So, what exactly am I talking about? It’s simple. Be ready to get into some serious body adoration as part of intimacy. Yes, we will do it to you as well. But we mostly like it done to us.

5. We’re down with roleplay

Another thing about Leo guys you must know is that we love to roleplay. Can you guess which type? I’ll make it really easy for you.

Any scenario where we are in charge. Examples include being the king of the castle or an authority figure, like a cop. I think you get my drift. Almost all Leos are born with a chip for acting.

If you haven’t tried roleplay with one of us, you really should. I promise it’s a fun time.

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Leo the Lion – King of the Jungle

6. We prefer it outside

There’s a reason your Leo boyfriend wants to take you camping or go for a hike up in the mountains. I know when I get with my girl it’s not because I like smelling the morning dew or scoping out landmasses.

Nope, instead, it’s because we like shagging outside. There’s just something about being in nature that gets our juices flowing.

Some people wonder if we like to be watched. Do you want the real answer? Well, here it goes – yeah, we do. A lot. But we also aren’t stupid enough to risk everything just for a quick romp in front of others.

7. Nasty talk is cool

It’s fairly well known that most Leo men dig nasty talk. But what is often left out of the equation is how the words are delivered.

First, you need to let us initiate it. Second, you need to follow our lead. You’ll know when the time is right because we’ll offer subtle hints.

Oh, if there is any talk of hurt or pain, it’s going to turn us off. That’s just not who we are. Lions are fiercely protective and very loving. Lean into that and amp up our alpha energy. Doing so will be to your benefit.

8. We dig compliments

You are probably reading this and thinking the lot of us are arrogant jerks. I’m here to tell you that’s not true. The reality is we like hearing compliments because it helps us center our dominance.

Think about it ladies. You are getting with a lion, one of the most powerful animals on the planet. He didn’t become king of the jungle by happenstance, you know?

Take a few moments during the buildup to intimacy to say something nice. Focus on things that really stand out (hint) and down with him giving you compliments back. It’s all part of the moment. Follow me?

9. Play with his ears

Have you ever watched one of those nature show and noticed the female lion almost always nibbles on the male lion’s ear, just before getting it on? If so, did you see how the male sits back and lets her do it, squinting his eyes and getting into it?

Well, there is a reason for this. Our ears are our weakness. One soft set of lips on them – or better yet a wet tongue – gets us going for days.

But be forewarned – doing any of the above will turn your man into a freaking beast. Like really bad.

10. Let us be jackhammers

One of the first things you’ll notice about us behind closed doors is that we’re quick on the mount. This can be a good thing or a bad thing, depending on what you are looking for.

I will tell you that once we slip inside, we tend to be like jackhammers. You would be wise to simply let the process unfold and not try to slow us down.

Some women have found the best way to keep us from getting overheated is to focus on the previously mentioned zones. That totally works but eventually, we’re going to want to – well, you know. I’m just telling you how it is ladies.

Wrap Up

Everything I have just shared with you is the real deal on how Leo men are in bed. The more emotionally charged the relationship, the more passionate the experience.

There’s probably only one other sign that is similar and that would be the Scorpio man. But here’s the thing. They really can’t hold a candle to us.

We are, after all, the King of the Jungle.

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Patrick is a freelance writer based in the state of Washington. He blogs about men's grooming, spirituality, technology, gadgets and more. When he's not writing, he's usually hiking outdoors with his dog.