7 Ways Scorpio and Aries Match in Love and Sex

Aries Scorpio Compatibility
Aries and Scorpio relationships

Why Scorpio and Aries are a powerful match

Scorpio and Aries are said to be incompatible but few reasons are ever given why. Is it all based on rumor or is there any truth behind the buzz? Can the two signs vibe or are they destined to be apart?

If you are curious about the answers, you’ve come to the right place.

That’s because this post is all about Scorpio and Aries with information about this pairing you will find nowhere else.

In this article, you will learn:

  • Why Scorpio and Aries can make for a great couple
  • Specific characteristics of Scorpio
  • Special attributes of Aries
  • How water signs and fire signs interact
  • The unique differences that draw them together
  • 7 reasons why Scorpio and Aries are more compatible than you think
Aries and Scorpio
Learn about Aries and Scorpio

Before we get into this pairing, you have a right to know about who I am. Right off the bat, I need to share that I am not an astrologer or a psychic.

Instead, I’m a Scorpio man who happens to have a background in psychology. For reasons that I do not fully understand, I have been drawn to the metaphysical.

Using insight from the ancients, coupled with tenets of Jungian psychology, I’m going to share with you concrete reasons why Scorpio and Aries can strongly match.

What is amazing about this pairing is how the two can complement one another. To cut to the chase, what one sign lacks, the other compensates for.

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Understanding the water and fire sign match

Aries and Scorpio Revealed

In my research, I’ve learned that not all signs are a good fit for Aries. The same holds true for Scorpio; one of the most mystical and misunderstood signs in astrology.

Both signs have strong personalities. However, unlike other pairings, such as Capricorn and Pisces, the differences between Scorpio and Aries are more pronounced.

If you are an Aries looking for insight into dating Scorpio, this post is for you. Conversely, if you are a Scorpio looking for wisdom on Aries, you’ll find practical insight as well.

The information appearing below is gender neutral. While there are differences in how signs express their traits gender-wise, I’m going to focus on the big picture.

My promise is to present information that is devoid of astro-babble with the goal of helping you with your relationship needs.

As part of this post, I’ve included practical tips to help navigate difficult waters for the Scorpio Aries paring. Additionally, I’ve included videos on water signs and fire signs with the hope of deepening your understanding of astrology.

We will begin by looking at each sign’s primary traits. Take note of their similarities and differences. Knowing this information will help to provide context for all that follows.

Once you are done examining this chart, let’s move on to the seven unique ways Scorpio and Aries match.

Aries and Scorpio Traits

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Aries: March 21 – April 19

In the traditions of horoscopic astrology, Aries occupies the “First House” of the zodiac. In the spiritual sense, a “house” is nothing more than an energy structure that holds supernatural traits.

If you were to open the door to this house and walk inside, you would immediately detect the energies of optimism and passion. You would also pick up on vibrations of confidence and courage.

Aries is exclusively ruled by the planet Mars. This is important to know because it is this planet that gives the sign all of its traits – and powers.

Mars is 141 million miles from our sun. It symbolizes passion, energy, desire, and action. But the ancients also saw the planet as a source of impatience and bad tempers (Orion, 2007).

Main Aries Traits Include (Positive and Negative):

  • Determined
  • Focused
  • Impatient
  • Optimistic
  • Quick temper
  • Competitive
  • Aggressive
  • Creative
  • Moody
  • Extroverted
  • Natural leaders
  • Confident
  • Impulsive
  • Not great with losing
  • Outgoing

Fire Sign Primer Video

Aries is represented by the elemental sign of fire. At their core, fire signs are thought to be:

  • Self-sufficient,
  • Lively,
  • Spontaneous and,
  • Passionate.

There are only three fire signs: Sagittarius, Leo, and Aries respectively.

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Scorpio sign in neon

Scorpio: October 23 – November 21

Persons born under the Scorpio sign fall into the “Eighth House” in astrology. If you were to walk through the front door of this home, you would quickly sense energies that symbolized mystery, logic, intimacy, and bonding.

The sign is ruled by two planets that couldn’t be more different if they tried. The first is Pluto – a cold and distant object. The second is Mars; the same celestial body that governs the ram.

Pluto is located a jaw dropping 737 miles from earth and considered the last known planetoid in our solar system. It also happens to be deeply puzzling to astronomers.

Mars, being much closer to our sun, is hot.

Scorpio draws energies from both celestial bodies, pulling in heat from Mars and iciness from Pluto. It is for this reason Scorpios vibe out a mysterious but magnetic persona, all at once.

Main Scorpio Traits Include (Positive and Negative):

  • Curious
  • Intense
  • Logical
  • Empathic
  • Highly sexual
  • Emotional
  • Mysterious
  • Introverted
  • Distrustful
  • Jealous
  • Dominant
  • Loyal

Water Sign Primer Video

Scorpio is represented by the element of water. At their core, water signs are generally:

  • Very intuitive,
  • Super protective,
  • Highly empathic and;
  • Deeply emotional.
Cardinal signs and fixed signs
Cardinal signs and fixed signs

Cardinal Signs and Fixed Signs

In horoscopic astrology, the ancients teach us that Aries is a cardinal sign. But what does that mean? In plain-speak, cardinal signs hold the power to move and change. It is for this reason we see them at the beginning of each new season.

Conversely, as lore would have it, fixed signs are the opposite. They aren’t the greatest with change and struggle with being flexible. But fixed signs also represent stability and familiarity – something that can be positive in personal relationships.

Now that we have examined the basic traits of each sign, it’s time to examine the 7 ways Scorpio and Aries match in love and sex.

Aries and Scorpio can be a magical match

1. Sexual Energy

The physical attraction between Scorpio and Aries is powerful. Many believe the two don’t share chemistry but that simply isn’t true. In fact, their chemistry is palatable.

The reason is simple.

Aries loves the flesh and can become addicted to carnal connections. Scorpio vibrates on this plain too because both signs share the ruling planet of Mars.

However, the real reason they mesh so well in the bedroom is that Aries connects to the physical whereas Scorpio the emotional.

What one sign lacks the other compensates for. When Aries becomes too heated, Scorpio has an uncanny way of cooling the ram down. When this happens, an emotional opening occurs that lets Scorpio deeply connect with the ram’s soul.

This type of connection is magnetic and intoxicating for the ram, causing it to return again and again for intimacy.

Additionally, Aries prefers to initiate sexy-time. Scorpio is completely fine with this and can intuit what the ram wants. The challenges come when Aries wants to dominate; something Scorpios simply cannot and will not allow to happen.

And therein lies their dance – a dance of intimacy that can be fun, intense, and passionate.

This is not to say there won’t be problems. There will be. But if both signs can work through the need to control, the bedroom experience can be extremely explosive.

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Relationships between Scorpio and Aries

2. Love

Conventional wisdom holds that Aries and Scorpio struggle in matters of love. The reality is both are drawn to each other in ways that defy logic.

While it is true that Aries has problems intuiting the feelings of others, this doesn’t mean the ram is emotionally deaf. It can formulate strong bonds but it needs to be paired with the right sign.

This is where Scorpio comes in. After the initial courtship, Scorpio and Aries form a psychic link. In turn, trust increases, thereby deepening love between the two zodiacs.

Despite the ram’s tough demeanor, it can be a very affectionate, warm, and loving companion in relationships. What draws Scorpio to Aries is the ram’s sense of competitiveness. In turn, Aries is drawn to the Scorpion because of its sense of strength.

In many ways, the sometimes frantic energy of Aries becomes balanced by Scorpios calm presence. Conversely, Scorpio’s intensity is chilled by Aries playfulness.

When you think of love between these two signs, it is important to view them through the lens of practicality. Each offers what the does not have.

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Aries – an ancient and mystical sign

3. Trust

During the beginning stages of courtship, trust between both is low. There are a number of reasons for this but mostly because Scorpio is distrustful by nature.

It doesn’t help that Aries can be a major flirt; something the sign uses an extension of its playful nature. When Scorpio sees this, it becomes enraged. The problem is the ram doesn’t always know this.

Why? Because Scorpio is a master a concealing what it truly feels. But at some point, the arachnid’s true emotions become known; usually in a fit of jealousy. It is only then that the ram understands how its flirtatious nature can be problematic.

At some point, a time of choosing must occur. Specifically, the ram must decide if it will place boundaries around its wandering eye and remain physically and emotionally loyal.

Should the ram decide to do this, the level of trust between the two signs increases dramatically.

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4. Money

If there is one area where there exists a struggle, it is with matters of money. The primary reason relates to how both signs view the dollar.

Scorpio is a miser. It spends money on practical things and prefers to sock away cash for a rainy day. On the flipside, Aries likes excitement and stimulation; activities it will spend cash on in sometimes impulsive ways.

In personal relationships, both have the power to teach one another financial lessons. Aries can impart insight on the importance of fun. Scorpio can share wisdom on saving money for the future.

Once both signs come to an understanding, there can be a healthy balance. But this doesn’t happen overnight. Patience is absolutely required.

5. Intellect

Earlier, we compared and contrasted fire signs and water signs. While the two are completely opposite in their traits, it is their differences that draws them together.

Aries is focused on two life areas: (1) The here and now and (2) doing. Almost neurotically, the sign is concerned with challenging itself and thinking outside of the box.

On the other hand, the Scorpion mind is concerned with the afterlife, transformation, and renewal.

Aries helps to pull Scorpio away from its future-focused thoughts and into the present. This ability on Scorpio can only happen with a cardinal sign – meaning Aries, Cancer, Libra, and Capricorn.

On the flipside, Scorpio encourages Aries to reinvent itself and not be so singular in focus.

Working in tandem, both can stimulate one another’s minds, making way for powerful conversations.

Scorpio and Aries - a Cosmic match?
Scorpio and Aries – a Cosmic match?

6. Communications

Fire signs and water signs are thought to struggle with communication. But is that true? The answer is mostly, yes however, in the case of Scorpio and Aries, this rule does not apply.

The reason is simple. Both signs are straight forward. There is no hidden meaning behind what is being said. Scorpio tends to see things in black or white and Aries generally does the same.

When problems do occur, it is usually because Scorpio becomes overly sensitive and misunderstands the intent behind the ram’s words.

Once both signs get to know one another and their style of communication, conversation is generally free flowing. One caveat here is that Aries must recognize Scorpio can empathically read what the ram is feeling. This means trying to conceal emotions is futile.

Finally, both signs need to be mindful of being too blunt.

7. Interests

A strong area of bonding between Aries and Scorpio relates to interests. Both signs are adventurous with Aries having a special chip for trying new things.

Scorpio is drawn towards the water whereas Aries towards the mountains; the natural habitat for the ram.

As a couple, both enjoy hiking, boating, skiing, and even fishing. Sometimes, Scorpio struggles with moving away from its fixed and familiar nature. This is where Aries can give Scorpio a swift kick in the behind to get it to try something new.

The one area where conflict occurs relates to political beliefs. Both hold strong opinions and both are stubborn. But it is their differences that draw them together.

Hopefully, the material shared in this post on both zodiacs has demonstrated the two can match. The key thing to keep in mind is that relational maintenance takes a lot of work; more so than other pairings.

But once duo formulates a bond, it is difficult to keep them apart.

In fact, they tend to stay together for many years.

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Aaron McBride is a Seattle based freelance journalist. He enjoys writing on men's topics, outdoor activities, grooming, and wellness. He's also got a thing for penning pieces on spirituality and astrology. Look for posts that are off the wall and sometimes bizarre.